My Husband Found Me in Bed

Please hide my name. My husband found me in bed with another man, in our bedroom. I expected him to shoot both of us right there but he didn't. He nicely asked his guide guy to get dressed and leave. I was shaking to the toe at that moment. He told me to go take a shower. I tried to apologise but he told me he didn't want to talk about it because there was nothing he can do to reverse what happened. That was the last time we spoke about it. Ever since that day he has been nice to me. He buys me flowers and take me out at least twice a week. Just last week he took me shopping and spent R4400. He's busy organising a vacation for us overseas before Christmas. My husband is doing everything I want as from my man. Here is my problem. What he saw last month is eating me everyday, especially since he doesn't want to talk about it. I'm even losing weight. I expected him to chase me away, punish me or call a family meeting to report me. He's doing the opposite. I feel like he's planning to do something bad to me. Sometimes I open my eyes at night and find him looking at me. When I ask he says he's admiring my beauty and thanking God for blessing him with a flame of a woman. I'm think he's planning to do something to me when we are overseas. Am I being unnecessarily paranoid? Should I be worried?

A woman anonymously describes cheating on her husband, expecting violence or punishment, but instead he becomes unusually kind, buys her flowers, takes her shopping, and plans an overseas vacation. His calm affection makes her even more suspicious that he is planning revenge. The joke is the darkly absurd reversal: the husband’s kindness feels more frightening than anger. EN: A woman anonymously describes cheating on her husband, expecting violence or punishment, but instead he becomes unusually kind, buys her flowers, takes her shopping, and plans an overseas vacation. His calm affection makes her even more suspicious that he is planning revenge. The joke is the darkly absurd reversal: the husband’s kindness feels more frightening than anger.

• @jeppa420 / 10359 2020-12-01