Girlfriend Uses the N-Word

My girlfriend uses the n-word and I absolutely hate it Hey everyone. I'll try to make it short. So we are both white, my girlfriend (24F) and I (24M) have been together for about two years. We're in an open relationship, but it's pretty one-sided. She's the one who sees other people while I don't. At some point I began watching them when she's with her partners. (only when they allow it of course) Now basically all of her partners have been Black men and this is absolutely no problem for me, in fact I really enjoy the contrast of their skin. But here is the problem. When she's with a new partner, she'd ask if she can use the n-word during sex. Some allow it, some don't. But if they do, she starts using it so frequently and carelessly like she's on a kkk rally. I feel really uncomfortable about this and honestly, I think it's racist. But I don't know how to approach her about this. Am I being too sensitive? FUCK ME [censored]

A screenshot of a Reddit relationship-advice post describes a white woman in an open relationship who repeatedly uses a racial slur during sex with Black partners, while her boyfriend finds it racist and asks whether he is being too sensitive. The crude reaction image below exaggerates the sexual situation for shock value, making the post absurd and uncomfortable. It is used as a reaction to outrageous, disturbing, or darkly ironic relationship stories.

• @eternalclassic / 73750 2025-08-06