Teen Blames His Parents

Okay, someone needs to say this bluntly. Your son is acting like a little shit. He's 15 not 5. No one wants to think about their parents having sex, and all teenagers are shits, but this honestly is above and beyond. He's your kid and you love him and put him first, as it should be -- but I wanted to tell you this: You have done NOTHING wrong. You have done nothing bad or shameful. This is not your fault. Your sex life is absolutely and utterly not his business, and he needs to get the fuck over himself with regards to hating you and not his father. Cuckolding is a mutually pleasurable kink, it is not something a wife demands because her husband isn't good enough. Your son knows this, believe me, he's Googled everything ever written about cucking by now, and he still chooses to deny it and blame you. I know a lot of people will think I'm the devil and I must not have kids or I must hate kids, or I don't understand. But at 15, he isn't a poor traumatized child. He's a shitty teenager who needs to get over it and stop kink shaming his parents. He is more than capable of reacting maturely and he's choosing not to. By all means, sit him down with a therapist and find out why he is overreacting so badly -- honestly I think all teenagers could use a therapist, it sucks being a teen, which is why they act like they do. But in this case there seems to be something going on way beyond finding out his parents are kinky. He's acting like you personally are the Devil who has ruined his family forever, and it's ridiculous and so far beyond an appropriate reaction that something somewhere has to be messed up with him. He's not going to tell you why he's hurt, but maybe he'll tell a therapist, and be able to get it all out instead of bottling it up inside. He needs someone he can talk to about this whole situation, who isn't part of his family or peers group. Find a sex-positive therapist who won't fill his head with more garbage kinkshaming. And then resume your sex life, the sex life that he has no business knowing about or commenting on in any way. You matter, too, and you're hurting badly because of his behavior. He doesn't get to hold you hostage.

A screenshot of a long Reddit comment advising a parent whose 15-year-old son is reacting harshly to the parents’ sex life and kink. The commenter bluntly argues that the teenager is overreacting, kink-shaming his parents, and should speak with a sex-positive therapist, while the parent should not feel guilty or let him control their relationship. It is used as an absurdly intense reaction to family drama and oversharing about sex. EN: A screenshot of a long Reddit comment advising a parent whose 15-year-old son is reacting harshly to the parents’ sex life and kink. The commenter bluntly argues that the teenager is overreacting, kink-shaming his parents, and should speak with a sex-positive therapist, while the parent should not feel guilty or let him control their relationship. It is used as an absurdly intense reaction to family drama and oversharing about sex.

• @eternalclassic / 12113 2022-04-16