Racial Slur During Sex

New Bf called me a racial slur during sex Kinks My boyfriend called me an Asian racial slur during sex three times. I immediately asked him about it, and he said it was just a slip of the tongue. However, right after, he said, "I like how my white dick is deep in your *slur *pussy." I called him out on it, and he brushed it off, saying it's just a kink and I should get over it. Here's the thing, though: I'm not Asian, and this situation has left me feeling really strange and unsettled. I'm trying to figure out if this is considered race play or something else. It feels like the comments weren't just about me, but about something beyond our relationship. I'm struggling to understand if this is something I should be concerned about or if I'm overreacting. But honestly, it feels like a huge violation of my boundaries.

A screenshot of a Reddit relationship and sex post describes a boyfriend repeatedly using an Asian racial slur during sex, then dismissing it as a kink. The punchline is the absurdly uncomfortable mismatch between the boyfriend’s racialized sexual language and the poster saying they are not Asian, making the image a reaction meme about crossing boundaries and confusing harmful behavior with consensual roleplay. EN: A screenshot of a Reddit relationship and sex post describes a boyfriend repeatedly using an Asian racial slur during sex, then dismissing it as a kink. The punchline is the absurdly uncomfortable mismatch between the boyfriend’s racialized sexual language and the poster saying they are not Asian, making the image a reaction meme about crossing boundaries and confusing harmful behavior with consensual roleplay.

• @eternalclassic / 65522 2025-02-22